Take a 4-minute compatibility quiz. We score you against every member and introduce you to 2–3 people a week scored 80%+ compatible in your city. Only pay £79 each when you both say yes to meeting.
Pay-per-accepted-date
£79
per side, only when you both meet
Free to join. Free to get matched. Never charged unless you both agree to meet someone.
✓If either of you walks out within 15 min, full refund.
✓ Free to join✓ No card to start✓ 30-day guarantee
9 days
average time to first date
87%
average match compatibility
3.4×
more second dates than Hinge
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How AIJAM works
Three steps. Zero swiping.
Tinder makes money when you stay single. We only make money when two people actually meet.
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Take the quiz
4 minutes. We score you on conversation style, life priorities, dealbreakers, and the things people lie about on dating apps.
Free · no card02
Get scored matches
Every week, 2–3 people scored 80%+ compatible. Each comes with a written report: why we matched you, where you might clash, and 5 conversation starters.
Free · unlimited matches03
Both say yes → meet
When both of you opt in, we book the venue and send calendar invites. Only then are you charged £79 each. Either walks within 15 min — full refund.
£79 per accepted date
What £79 covers
Not just a match. A real first date, handled.
Other apps stop the second you exchange numbers. The friction kills the date. We handle the rest.
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Compatibility-scored match (80%+)
Across 47 dimensions. Not "she's nearby."
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Venue booked for you
A vetted restaurant or bar in your city. Walkable from both your places. We book the table.
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14-page compatibility report
Why we matched you. What you have in common. Where you'll friction.
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AI Date Coach (pre & post)
5 conversation starters before. Honest read after — did they like you, what worked, what didn't.
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15-minute walk-out refund
Either of you leaves within 15 min, both refunded in full. We'd rather lose £158 than charge for a bad date.
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Ghost shield
They cancel last-minute or don't show? Your next match is on us. They get blacklisted.
vs other dating apps
£420 on Hinge last year. How many real dates did it get you?
Apps charge to access. We charge only when you meet.
Match.com
Price£32/month
Built for30–55
MatchingYou search
Venue booked—
Hinge Premium
Price£35/month
Built for25–40
MatchingYou swipe
Venue booked—
AIJAM
Price£79 only when you meet
Built for35–55
MatchingWe do it for you
Venue bookedYes, every match
Walk-out refund15 min · full
Members
For people done with apps, not done dating.
★★★★★
"After my divorce I tried Hinge for 18 months. Two dates, both disasters. AIJAM matched me with someone in week one. We've been seeing each other for three months."
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Emma, 42
London
Verified
★★★★★
"I'd given up. Genuinely given up. My sister made me try it. The compatibility report on my first match was the most accurate thing I'd read about myself in years. We're going on date three next week."
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James, 47
Manchester
Verified
★★★★★
"What I love is they actually book the restaurant. No three weeks of WhatsApp ping-pong about when works. The date just happens. Worth every penny."
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Sarah, 39
Edinburgh
Verified
Honest answers
You're probably wondering…
Yes. Quiz, matching, compatibility reports — all free. The £79 is charged the moment both of you opt in to meet. Either passes? No charge, ever. We can't make money unless the product actually works for you.
Walk out within 15 minutes and both of you get a full refund. Both confirm separately, refund in 24 hours. We'd rather lose £158 than charge for a date that didn't deserve it. Genuine policy, no fine print.
Yes. AIJAM is built exclusively for people aged 35–55 who want age-appropriate, serious relationships. You won't be matched with 25-year-olds, and you won't see students looking for "something casual." This is the deliberate filter that makes the matching work.
We score you across 47 compatibility dimensions: conversation style, life priorities, dealbreakers, weekend energy, attachment patterns, the things you regret about past relationships. We weight by what actually predicts second dates and three-month relationships — not by who you'll "click with" briefly.
Every member is verified with a live video selfie and phone number. AI does the matching, not the populating. If you're not human, you don't get on. We also reject anyone whose behaviour suggests they're not serious.
London, Manchester, Birmingham, Edinburgh, Glasgow, Bristol, Leeds, Liverpool, Brighton, Cambridge, Oxford. Take the quiz from anywhere in the UK — if there isn't enough density in your area yet, we'll waitlist you.
Take the quiz. It's free. You'll get your compatibility profile and see your first three matches before paying anything. You only pay when you both opt in to a real date.
Stop wasting nights on apps. Start meeting.
4 minutes. Free to take. See your matches before you pay a penny.